Today, in various parts of the world, parents have different views about their child’s options. Some parents claim that there should be a strong impact on their child’s option of fellows and companionship. While, others consider that children are self-determined to opt their fellows by themselves. I strongly believe that, as youngsters have a curiosity whatever they like, parents should let them think independently when it comes to tackling their personal problems as well as the building freindship surroundings. Thus, parental-support and open communication needs to be done in some situations when their children can not able to make decisions at times.
Some parents consider that opting friend by their child should be on attention. One of the main aspect of today’s society is causing badly to the individuals mindset since there is been significantly rise in the umber of vallians and unrespectful resedents to each other, not only amoung the olders but also this situation is effecting to the younger generation too but some parents may consider about the age factor between their children and their partnership. For example, when their age is not supposed to each other, it will cause to some misunderstandable-concepts within them, communicational-skills , and modeling healthy friendships will not goes well. Resultanly, it can effect to the child’s mental health, and leads lack of confidence about the people who are around them.
Despite this factor, some individuals argue that parents should let their children think autonomuosly and determine some decisions on their own. Over time, these conditions will yield overcomes cause when child feels freedom and able to interact with everybody can effect their communicational-abillity, building strong social skills between their beloved friends and share their ideas with each other. In Japan kids are allowed to experience everything by themselves despite their age, because parents consider that it can assist to the child’s self-awareness and think freely. Discovering new cultural experiments, no sooner they encounter to the problem they can tackle on their own.
As for my view, people have different views about parental-education but parents should allow their kids to act independatly and let them to think that they are not under-pressure with anything and anybody cause everything that you trait badly will definitly effect on their mental mindset and their characters too.
To conclude, even though there are some drawbacks of controlling child’s options and interest as a parent, it seems to me that letting them feel independence is more crucial rather than making them feel pressure.